Because your hair should reflect who you are

A haircut should do more than just make you look good or “pretty”—it should help you feel like you. For many in the queer community, especially trans, and gender-nonconforming people , that’s where gender-affirming haircuts can be a life changing experience.

Whether you’re exploring gender expression or you’ve always known who you want to be, this type of haircut helps bridge the gap between how you feel you’d like to be seen and how you’re perceived. It’s not just a trim—it’s a transformation.

What is a Gender-Affirming Haircut?

A gender-affirming haircut is designed to align with and help express your gender identity. It’s a very powerful tool that can help you achieve gender euphoria— that feeling of joy and comfort that people experience when their inner-self and gender expression align with external appearance. It’s a collaborative process between stylist and client, built on trust, communication, feedback, and understanding.

The difference between a “normal” haircut and a gender-affirming one comes down to your intention. Instead of asking, “What’s trendy right now?”, the conversation is:

“How do you want to be seen?”
“What feels powerful or feels more euphoric to you?”
“Are there certain parts of your hair that make you feel more masculine/feminine/ androgynous?””

Work with a hairstylist that you trust. They should take these conversations seriously, making a safe space for you to explore what looks and feels right.

The Difference Between Masculine and Feminine Haircuts—And Why It Matters Less Than You Think

Traditionally, masculine haircuts are structured, hard lines, and angular—think fades, buzzcuts, or sharp side parts. Feminine haircuts, on the other hand, often focus on length, softness, layers, and flow—think shags, long blended layers, or bobs.

But for many of us, gender expression isn’t so black and white with little choice. Some clients might want a soft, curly mullet with a fade (yesss, duality). Others might want a pixie that leans masc, or long layers with a tough undercut. It’s not about fitting into societal norms —it’s about feeling like your badass self.

💡 Pro tip: Bring multiple inspo pics, even if they look totally different. We love when you show us photos of people with different styles—masculine, feminine, and in-between—so we can blend elements and customize your unique look.

How to Get a Gender-Affirming Haircut in Denver

If you’re in the Denver area, Fōrma Collective Salon is proud to offer a safe, queer-friendly space for all. Here’s how to prepare:

Book with the right stylist

Look for a stylist who gets your vision. Finding a trans or queer stylist can also add an extra layer of comfort and remove some unnecessary anxiety around the unknown. When booking, you can leave notes about your pronouns, identity, and the kind of haircut you’re looking for.
Gather inspo pics

Don’t worry if they seem all over the place! Your dream haircut might be a little bit masc, a little bit femme, and a little weird. Pinterest, TikTok, and Instagram are the best place to look for inspiration. Find inspo on our Instagram.

Communicate your goals

Whether you want to look more masc, feel less dysphoric, or simply find a look that matches your energy, we’re here to listen without assumptions. We’ll talk through what feels right and co-create a haircut that affirms your identity.

Why It Matters

As a trans queer stylist, I know how life-changing a gender-affirming haircut can be. It’s not just about hair—it’s about feeling good in your own skin. About alignment. About being seen without feeling uncomfortable.

For some, this is a huge step toward feeling more comfortable in their body. For others, it’s a quiet moment of self-connection and free will. Either way, it’s powerful—and it should be accessible, respectful, and joyful.

You deserve to feel like your most authentic self when you look in the mirror.

If you’re ready to make that happen, I’d love to see you in my chair.

Book your appointment with me at Fōrma Collective Salon here.

Looking for more trans and queer hair inspiration? Follow @thehair.oracle on Instagram or browse our gallery for real client transformations.

— Olive Marquardt (they/he)

Trans Queer Stylist at Fōrma Collective